- Surprise the bride to be! Arrange to sneak the butler in and have him get changed in another room and then come out with a glass of bubbly / her favorite drink! Or…
- Play a game called guess the bachelorette! Line up several different girls, blindfold the bride-to-be and have her guess who they are by touch alone. You might have guessed it, the last “bachelorette” she guesses is in fact the butler! A great way to surprise her and start the celebrations.
- Have him help prepare the food! We can’t promise 5 star cuisine but he can definitely lend a hand in the kitchen.
- Have him serve the food or pass around some nibbles.
- Having a summer party with a BBQ? Why not ask the butler to help with that!
- Have him generally help out. Your butler is there to wait and serve on you. So if you’ve got something that needs tidying away or cleaning up ask the butler!
- Use your butler as a bell boy! If you renting a large property it could be a nice idea to have the butler arrive just before the guests and have him show them to their rooms and carry their luggage!
- Have a Life Drawing Class. Ask him to pose for a drawing in his butlers outfit.
- Ask him to take a group photo of your party, saves messing with those pesky timers!
- Give a disposable camera to your butler and ask him to take pictures throughout the night. You never know what you’ll get!
- Have him mix some cocktails for you. Our regular butlers can mix cocktails for you! Just have the recipes to hand and the equipment required.
- Play a game of musical chairs – have the butler do the music.
- Having an early booking? – Why not have him deliver breakfast in bed to the blushing bride-to-be.
- Are you having an evening a meal – kick of the fun by having the butler(s) bring out the desert!
- Play a game of “Memories” and have the butler host the quiz.
- Have a Cocktail Lesson with one of our professionally trained cocktail bartenders!
- Have a Cocktail Party with bar hire, glass hire and alcohol all thrown in with our Buff Bartender Package.
- “Never have I ever” is a great game and a great way to use your butler. Have the butler hand out cards and then gather the notes and start the game.
- Play some games that involve dares and get your butler involved as a part of the dares! For example kiss a man nearby or how about trade clothes with someone!
- Toilet paper wedding dress game. Have the butler judge the dresses or better still get him dressed up in one!
- Anyone missing from the party? A friend in New York? Or just someone who couldn’t make it. Why not record a video message with the butler and text or email it to them to cheer them up!
- Show the boys who’s having all the fun! Maybe the boys are on their bachelor party and think their having all the fun, a quick pic of the girls with the butlers will show them otherwise!
- Having a bachelorette party book? Why not ask the butler to write her a little message as a memento from her special night!
- Keep everyone’s glasses topped up! If you’re having wine at dinner or maybe a champagne welcome, have your butler(s) armed with a bottle or two to keep everyone topped up!